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This is a space for open conversations, shared experiences and saying the things most people avoid.If you have a question or want to share your story, email us at notasweplannedpodcast@gmail.comJoin </p><p>Our Community: Get our weekly BONUS episode:<a href="https://patreon.com/c/NotAsWePlannedFollow">https://patreon.com/c/NotAsWePlannedFollow</a> the Podcast:@notasweplanned_podcastTash:@tash_blake_ivyCarly:@iamcarlyharrisGet the Planner:<a href="https://notasweplanned.shop">https://notasweplanned.shop</a></p>]]></description><copyright><![CDATA[]]></copyright><language>en-GB</language><lastBuildDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2026 12:43:58 +0000</lastBuildDate><itunes:type>episodic</itunes:type><itunes:author>Bauer Media</itunes:author><itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit><spotify:countryOfOrigin>gb</spotify:countryOfOrigin><itunes:owner><itunes:email>podcasts@bauermedia.co.uk</itunes:email></itunes:owner><image><title>Not As We Planned </title><url>https://studio-podplay.imgix.net/img/0702b7062a6c181b5738b3884ed7c8f1.jpeg?auto=compress&amp;h=1500&amp;w=1500&amp;s=97f46b77b6830652f7f1ef54272de17d</url></image><itunes:image href="https://studio-podplay.imgix.net/img/0702b7062a6c181b5738b3884ed7c8f1.jpeg?auto=compress&amp;h=1500&amp;w=1500&amp;s=97f46b77b6830652f7f1ef54272de17d"/><itunes:new-feed-url>https://rss.podplaystudio.com/3615.xml</itunes:new-feed-url><pp:catalog-id>89447e0b-2dd7-491b-a89f-abdae032e131</pp:catalog-id><itunes:category text="Kids &amp; Family"/><itunes:category text="Society &amp; Culture"/><item><description><![CDATA[<p>It’s Halloween, and we’ve got some truly terrifying relationship stories for you! This week, we hear from a Bestie who spent almost FIVE YEARS with a man she believed was separated, only to discover he was still married and had welcomed another baby with his wife during their relationship! We also have a VERY revealing update from the man who previously wrote in about his experiences with supposedly straight men, including some who are now married with children. Plus, Carly shares a shocking confrontation with a stranger who punched her car and threatened her with a hammer, and we hear from a Bestie who’s secretly saved £3,000 towards a divorce fund every time her husband annoys her! </p><p>Watch the podcast on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@NotAsWePlanned">YouTube</a></p><br><p>Get a weekly BONUS episode on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/NotAsWePlanned">Patreon</a>:</p><br><p><strong>Join Our Community</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/notasweplanned_podcast/">Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@notasweplanned_podcast">TikTok</a></p><p> Hosted on Acast. 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In this incredibly emotional episode, Rosie joins Tash and Carly to share her breast cancer journey, from receiving her diagnosis and undergoing 16 rounds of chemotherapy to losing her hair, having a double mastectomy and discovering she carried the BRCA1 gene mutation. She opens up about the heartbreaking reality of facing cancer as a young mum, the impact on her relationship, making life-changing decisions about her body and fertility, and the fear of her cancer returning that she still lives with today. We also discuss the importance of checking your breasts, recognising changes in your body and why being young and healthy doesn’t mean you’re immune. An honest, powerful conversation about motherhood, resilience and learning to appreciate life after everything changes.</p><p>Watch the podcast on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@NotAsWePlanned">YouTube</a></p><br><p>Get a weekly BONUS episode on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/NotAsWePlanned">Patreon</a>:</p><br><p><strong>Join Our Community</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/notasweplanned_podcast/">Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@notasweplanned_podcast">TikTok</a></p><p> Hosted on Acast. 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One listener thought she had the perfect life until she discovered weeks of phone calls between her 44-year-old husband and a 24-year-old woman. He insisted he was simply helping her through a breakup, but when she started digging, the truth began to unravel. He’d saved her number under her son’s name, sent intimate messages and told her he loved her. Now, just seven months into their marriage, she’s questioning whether she’ll ever be able to trust him again.</p><br><p>We also hear from a woman who discovered her partner had been messaging sex workers while working away, only to later find he’d continued searching for them closer to home. After almost nine years together, a daughter and a mortgage, she feels financially trapped and terrified of breaking up her family. But things become even more complicated when the man she once considered the love of her life unexpectedly comes back into the picture. Is he a genuine second chance at happiness, or simply an escape from a relationship she no longer wants to be in?</p><p>Watch the podcast on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@NotAsWePlanned">YouTube</a></p><br><p>Get a weekly BONUS episode on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/NotAsWePlanned">Patreon</a>:</p><br><p><strong>Join Our Community</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/notasweplanned_podcast/">Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@notasweplanned_podcast">TikTok</a></p><p> Hosted on Acast. 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One listener had spent years believing his version of how a previous relationship ended, only for a child-support letter to reveal the truth. Now she’s trying to process the fact that her husband kept an entire child secret from her, while working out how they eventually tell their own 10 and 8-year-old children that they have an older brother. And the biggest question is: after a lie this big, how do you ever trust someone again?</p><br><p>We also hear from a gay listener who’s been secretly sleeping with his married straight male friend for the last year. What started as one drunken night has turned into monthly meet-ups with pre-booked hotel rooms, all while he’s friends with the man’s wife. He’s now developed feelings and wants to know whether his friend could actually want something more. Oh, and then he casually reveals he’s had sexual encounters with seven of his 18 straight male friends.</p><p>Watch the podcast on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@NotAsWePlanned">YouTube</a></p><br><p>Get a weekly BONUS episode on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/NotAsWePlanned">Patreon</a>:</p><br><p><strong>Join Our Community</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/notasweplanned_podcast/">Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@notasweplanned_podcast">TikTok</a></p><p> Hosted on Acast. 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What started with a work colleague who has a long-term partner and two children has turned into a year-long affair, and now they’ve both admitted they have feelings for each other. She knows what they’re doing is wrong and desperately wants to end it, but there’s one major problem: she still has to see him at work. So how do you walk away from someone you’ve fallen for when you can’t completely remove them from your life?</p><br><p>Then, for the first time, we hear the other side from a male listener who fell deeply in love during an affair with an engaged woman. He spent almost two years waiting for her to leave her relationship, planned to move his life closer to her and believed they’d eventually be together. When she finally became single, he thought their chance had arrived… until she went on holiday, told him she needed to be alone and then revealed she’d met somebody else.</p><p>Watch the podcast on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@NotAsWePlanned">YouTube</a></p><br><p>Get a weekly BONUS episode on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/NotAsWePlanned">Patreon</a>:</p><br><p><strong>Join Our Community</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/notasweplanned_podcast/">Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@notasweplanned_podcast">TikTok</a></p><p> Hosted on Acast. 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After years of feeling insecure about it, she finally flew to Turkey alone for the nose job she’d wanted for years. She opens up about why she decided to do it, the panic that hit before surgery, the mental battle during recovery and what it was really like seeing her new face for the first time. 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She couldn’t find her own phone, so she picked up her husband’s to check the time… and messages from another woman appeared on the screen. She was still bleeding, wearing a postpartum nappy and caring for their two tiny children when she discovered her husband had been having an affair with a woman they both worked with, and it had been going on for months.</p><br><p>This week we also hear from a woman whose boyfriend kissed someone on a night out, came home and abruptly ended their relationship, only to then ask if he could move back into their flat while they sell it. We tackle whether a four-hour long-distance relationship can realistically work when both people have children and lives they can’t relocate, and hear from a cancer survivor trying to date again after her husband’s betrayal left her terrified of letting another man in. Plus, Carly has another dating update, we give one Bestie’s Bumble profile a brutally honest makeover, and hear a confession that might genuinely make you delete Instagram and leave the country.</p><p>Watch the podcast on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@NotAsWePlanned">YouTube</a></p><br><p>Get a weekly BONUS episode on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/NotAsWePlanned">Patreon</a>:</p><br><p><strong>Join Our Community</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/notasweplanned_podcast/">Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@notasweplanned_podcast">TikTok</a></p><p> Hosted on Acast. 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Plus, we talk dating apps, trusting your gut, finding love after divorce and whether you can ever truly know the person you marry.</p><br><p>Watch the podcast on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@NotAsWePlanned">YouTube</a></p><br><p>Get a weekly BONUS episode on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/NotAsWePlanned">Patreon</a>:</p><br><p><strong>Join Our Community</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/notasweplanned_podcast/">Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@notasweplanned_podcast">TikTok</a></p><p> Hosted on Acast. 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The stories had us on the edge of our seats, in fits of laughter and then a surprise confession from one of the hosts!</p><p><br></p><p></p><p>Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/</p><p><br></p><p></p><p>Watch the podcast on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@NotAsWePlanned">YouTube</a></p><br><p>Get a weekly BONUS episode on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/NotAsWePlanned">Patreon</a>:</p><br><p><strong>Join Our Community</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/notasweplanned_podcast/">Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@notasweplanned_podcast">TikTok</a></p><p> Hosted on Acast. 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The sexy, the dirty and the downright weird.</p><p>Producer: Tristan Hehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/</p><p>Watch the podcast on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@NotAsWePlanned">YouTube</a></p><br><p>Get a weekly BONUS episode on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/NotAsWePlanned">Patreon</a>:</p><br><p><strong>Join Our Community</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/notasweplanned_podcast/">Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@notasweplanned_podcast">TikTok</a></p><p> Hosted on Acast. See <a href="https://acast.com/privacy">acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description><enclosure url="https://bauernordic-pods.sharp-stream.com/gb/3615/14_he_asked_me_if_i_wanted_to_be_c4d4693a-8ea0-470f-9087-73c9d6c65d36_normal.mp3?aw_0_1st.episodeid=429234&amp;aw_0_1st.collectionid=3615" length="47145984" type="audio/mpeg"/><guid isPermaLink="false">16a052da-46a8-417b-842f-cda05dbcc0ae</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 Oct 2023 09:07:36 +0000</pubDate><title>14. 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See <a href="https://acast.com/privacy">acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>]]></description><enclosure url="https://bauernordic-pods.sharp-stream.com/gb/3615/12_continuing_the_healing_journe_81b2512f-f242-4ca8-aad6-525044e3a312_normal.mp3?aw_0_1st.episodeid=429232&amp;aw_0_1st.collectionid=3615" length="51844096" type="audio/mpeg"/><guid isPermaLink="false">21a52f17-d909-4238-b92e-52e667cdfb8a</guid><pubDate>Wed, 20 Sep 2023 23:30:01 +0000</pubDate><title>12. 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We also touch on how becoming parents has an effect on your relationship with your partner.Producer: Tristan HehirCity Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/<p>Watch the podcast on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@NotAsWePlanned">YouTube</a></p><br><p>Get a weekly BONUS episode on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/NotAsWePlanned">Patreon</a>:</p><br><p><strong>Join Our Community</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/notasweplanned_podcast/">Instagram</a></p><p><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@notasweplanned_podcast">TikTok</a></p><p> Hosted on Acast. 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